PJUR Anal Fisting: The (hot) right way to do it! 

FISTING. Still a big taboo, despite being part of many people’sfantasies. If you want to give it a go, here are our top tips for safe, sensual fisting: 

Communication Builds Trust, Understanding and Intimacy 

Before getting down and dirty, first things first: communication is the key. If you want to give it a go, talk it over with your partner first. Tell them what you want and let them know that they can say yes or no. Talking together has the advantage of strengthening the trust between you both. And, as a newly qualified expert (at least in theory!), you can explain exactly how it works. But ultimately, it should be a wonderful mutual experience that you can both enjoy. 

Take Care of Your Hands! 

To make sure the fistee is not hurt, the fister should keep their fingernails short and filed smoothly, and remove any jewellery. The active partner should always wear latex gloves – it is easy to cause injuries to the anal canal or intestine, so the infection risk increases for both parties. This means it is important to protect your hands as such. Always use a new glove for each new partner. 

Take It Slow and Steady 

Although fisting means anal penetration with the fist, you need to start off gently. As the active partner, penetrate the anus with one or two fingers first, making sure you are using plenty of personal lubricant of course! If that is comfortable, you can add more fingers, then eventually insert your whole hand, and finally clench the fist. It is important to communicate openly and honestly, before and while in the act. Always keep a clear head: some fistees use poppers or narcotics to reduce any painful sensations. However, these drugs can cause the active partner to lose control and hurt the passive partner. And in turn, the passive partner might not notice if they have been hurt, so be careful of the risks involved if you do choose to use them. 

Advice for Safe Afterplay 

If you want to have sex after fisting, it is a good idea to take a short break. The anal muscles need some time to relax again and contract – otherwise you will feel hardly any friction during penetration. You should also always use a condom because it is easy for injuries to occur during fisting. 

And, Finally, the Most Important Thing: 

Use (the Right) Personal Lubricant (such as PJUR Anal Lube)! 

This is a really important point and cannot be stressed enough: for any kind of anal sex, you need a good personal lubricant, like PJUR silicone lube, to avoid pain and injuries. Look at quality and invest in a medical personal lubricant. Supposed substitutes, like vegetable fat, are not suitable for introducing into the body and aren’t compatible with condoms: definitely avoid.

Our final thoughts 

Anal fisting encourages a high degree of intimacy, establishes trust, and can result in extremely intense orgasms. Particularly around the anus, it stimulates a lot of nerve endings. You just need an abundance of personal lubricant, patience, and sensitivity. Take it slow and make sure there is plenty of time to relax both before and afterwards. With the right tips on hand, give it a go. Just remember personal lubricant is king.